A friend is a treasure, cultivate them!

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My dear seeds,

Life is a challenge, face it!

And it is also love, Share it

Life is a dream, make it happen

These three phrases are a Hindu proverb that states very clearly what we are, what we have come to do. If life is a challenge, face it, take responsibility, leave selfishness and take responsibility. We have to do it, yes or yes.

And it is also love, Share it! Everything that is shared will last, here and beyond. What is not shared is lost forever.

And life is a dream because it happens in one minute, 100 years. But if you believe in the dream, make it come true, which is the most beautiful thing. It's like friendship, good friends are always by our side, at all times. They are the ones who help us when we have concerns, we talk to them because we trust them. I always put trust in my friends and in everyone. And they help us to be happy and life goes well for us. And they are also there for the bad, for those moments when we suffer, when we cry, because they enrich us and help us evolve internally and help us be better people, a little bit at a time.

There is a saying, who has a friend, has a treasure. You can't tell me it's not true, it's a treasure. Sometimes there are people who don't have a problem establishing bonds of friendship. I know many who immediately, I don't know, it's like a magnet, you have sympathy, empathy, everything. But there are also those who find it difficult to have those ties with others. Be it love or friendship or colleagues at work.

This type of people, perhaps because of their character, some are introverted, distrustful, there are many, many. Or also insecure, insecurity always acts as a brake. That brake that makes you say: “No, do not go further” and spend most of their lives trying to find a way to relate in a more natural way with others but they do not succeed and they are left alone or alone. It hurts me a lot that they are left alone, for not daring to take that step, for not wanting to relate, for not applying humility.

If by reading these last words you recognize yourself, it is the moment to act and take charge of your life: Oh what a joy! And we will always advise you some ideas to know how to put aside your fears. Fear, you know it is optional. Fear is optional.

I have a seed that is afraid of having surgery because she says that she may die and works in the middle of the hospital. But has always been very afraid of medicines, viruses, diseases since she was little. And beware! She is always in the hospital! But it is because she has many insecurities and prejudices. If she behaved with others in a more open and empathetic way, it would be easier for her to accept the operation, go through with it and heal. We cannot, when we have to operate, for the bones, of course, or some organ, we have to do it.

The Enseñanza saves you, it helps you, but it cannot do the work of a surgeon or these people, these doctors who fix bones. That they fix you when you break an arm, a leg, traumatologist.

The most important thing is to make friends. It is complicated at times, but it is not an impossible mission! No, my seeds! The first step is to know yourself, you have to know yourself and see your weaknesses, or yourself. You have to know their weaknesses and their qualities and when you know your strengths and weaknesses, all your abilities will help you go more safely.

If you are confident you can go through life and find friends without even looking because they come to you. Here you have the key to achieve it: confidence in yourself, what else is there? If you are born perfect, if you have everything. The rest is fear, which is optional, the complexes we have, the same, they are optional. Well, if you know everything and are prepared for everything. What, you made an error? From error comes perfection.

Look for places where you can meet new people. Today young people already know, the internet. But there is also an association, become a volunteer, sign up for group classes, learn something, always be open to ideas and always share your interests, your intentions with those people, surely you will achieve it. And above all, you will have fun and learn a lot from their experiences, each one has their own experiences, each one.

Whoever has a little animal, a puppy, a cat, a horse, will always love you and you will learn because you live in the city, when you go down the street I will never tire of telling you, smile. When you meet someone, look him in the eye, that way you will always transmit security. And it seems as if you are approaching that person, I have experienced it: without knowing someone I have looked at them and I have smiled and they respond immediately, others do not eh, but some respond. Sometimes they even greet you and give you great joy!

You always have to have very clear, organized ideas in your head. How many times do I tell mine, always order the ideas in your head, do not calculate, do not put the reason, only with what you are going to say is enough and always dominate your impulses, sometimes we make the tantrum girl or the boy, do not leave it. Because of nerves or anger, jealousy, envy, don't leave him, take a deep breath and leave him, think that not only what you say is important, but how you say it.

It is also essential to speak from the heart, when talking about the heart, I know Maní's mother who speaks with her heart, sometimes she fires like a machine gun! but she knows how to recognize it, but she speaks with her heart. Do not let anyone manipulate you, your opinions are important but you have to know how to listen because many tell me: yes, but you never let me have my opinion, you always want to be right.

No, I can accept when I am wrong and when I make a mistake but first let me explain, listen to the opinions of others and then you can give your opinion, but if you close down and throw a tantrum you will not move forward and you will lock your soul in jail.

If you always speak with your heart and give your opinions, others will know that they can trust you and that you really say what you think, always.

Many times our shyness will cost us a lot, but with practice little by little, patience always, you will succeed! Try never to place labels, when you see someone many times, we get carried away by the appearance of the people. I always tell you, be careful, (how they are dressed, how they speak, their physique) because later when we talk with them we discover how good they are, how beautiful they are inside.

We tend to stay away from grumpy or bossy people. Try to empathize with others, you have to listen to what other people say, and respect their ideas - that's hard for us boys and girls. Surely some opinions enrich you, criticism of the people around you, not much, not even behind their backs, always in front, I have repeated this a thousand times. When I speak, you always have to say it up front, because the person can defend himself, if you say it behind his back, you hurt yourself. And above all say: "no!" toxic people.

Toxic people, oh my! You smell them an hour away, get away. And also stay away from the envious ones, those who steal your energy, or those who disrespect you, I always tell you that, please make them respect because they tell me: “Jardinera, they don't listen to me, they don't obey me, I've already said it many times but they don't want to listen to me. "

If they don't respect you, turn around, or repeat it 30 thousand times, make them see it differently, they may be shy or have a bad character. If you are sweet, they will listen.

And above all, spend as much time as possible, always, always, with people who value you. If people value you, it is that they recognize that you are Masters, that you are seeds of the Universe, that you are particular people, and value you as you deserve, surely that way you are going to enrich each other, that is the wonder of friendship, of the true Love. The wonder of true Love, that is.

Remembering that life is a challenge, every day we have the challenge, how we started it, what we are going to do. I am not well, I am doing terrible, or on the contrary, I have dreams! Face that challenge, without laziness, without jealousy and above all without selfishness. It has to be done so let's do it with responsibility and joy.

And also life is love! We are going to share it, that love if we share it, we receive it a thousand times from the Universe! and life is a dream, fight to make it happen. My girls, fight from the heart to achieve it, my young people, fight! because life is an effort called a challenge, face it, you can, you have strength, you have youth, it is love, sharing it. And that dream, make it happen.

With all my love and all the happiness in the world,

Because this year is the year of Spirituality! It is the year of truth! It is the year of saying I love you!

I love you with all my heart,

Your Jardinera